Friday, September 23, 2011
Boys
Who would have thought having three boys would be THIS much fun? As the years tick by and they grow with every passing second, I sometimes have to remind myself of just how much FUN it can be! That is IF I let it. Fun in my book didn't used to be things like: getting dirty, making a HUGE mess, tearing apart the house, wrestling, jumping off furniture, looking for bugs, sword fighting, building forts (maybe I did always think that was fun!) and about a million other things these guys love to do. I always pictured myself having at least ONE girl! Someone to re-live my childhood with! You know, playing with my little ponies and strawberry shortcake and cabbage patch kids! These days it's all about Star Wars and transformers and Super Hero's! Guess what? That has become normal to me now! Who would have thought!! I've also come to accept the MANY..... let's just call them minor inconveniences, one may have when they have boys. I mean SO what if I have guests and they walk through the door only to be blocked by a GIANT fort made out of blankets AND my nice couch pillows! Fine by me if they see a battle field made up of action figures as they attempt to walk up the stairs....It's no big deal to me anymore if our backyard is no longer the picture of perfection but instead a place where little boys dig and build and explore. I am finally getting used to being tackled to the ground when I ask for a hug and am happy to tackle them right back! Joy for me can't be held in the palm of hand that doesn't have at least A LITTLE dirt under the fingernails! I can't wait to sleep under the stars with my boys while on one of the many camping trips we will undoubtably be going on. And I am ready and willing to wake up early and venture off to the many sporting events we will be planning our lives around in a few years. It might not be what I had pictured but it's what God has so graciously given me! I am blessed beyond belief for not only the grace of God, but that he has entrusted ME to be the mom to these precious little boys because he knew that I would come to love it the way I do! And, you know... who's to say that if we had three little girls they wouldn't be doing all these same things? Well .. I guess I'll never know, and I'm alright with that!
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So well said Jen! When I was pregnant and people asked me if I was having a boy or a girl... and I would tell them boy (with my other little boy standing next to me) they would sigh and tilt their heads with a sympathetic "aww". Some would even go as far as to say "well maybe next time" or "wow 2 boys thats going to be crazy"... this left me feeling so sad every time... like they knew something I didnt... how and when did a boy become a consolation prize or second best to having a girl? I would smile and say something like... oh well im happy with my boys... like i had to defend myself. I think we will be adding 1 more little one to our family in the next couple of years... and for some reason... now... I just dont ever see myself as having a girl. I think I was with you and had the same thoughts about tutus and tea parties... but thats not my life now. its not an idea that I had to mourn the passing of... its just not. I think some people forget what parenthood is... its not what you can or cant buy for your child... or what activities they are in or what color their favorite shirt is... its the bond... the relationships that we form with our children that lasts the rest of our lives... its the joy and wonder we see in their eyes a they learn and discover new things.how lucky our boys are... that they have mommies who celebrate them in all that they are... and all that theyre not!
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